In the wonderful award-winning musical ‘FIDDLER ON THE ROOF’, Tevye the Milkman explains to his wife and five daughters that certain things must be done because they are “TRADITION” !!

Topol as Tevye by United Artists
His emphasis on traditions is important because they’re based on habitual ways of living our lives in an orderly way. Habits help us through life with a minimum of effort, forethought or planning. They save time and reduce repeated agonizing over “what to do next?”
Day by day we give little thought to dressing, meals,bathing, driving to work, where to go on vacation, what to read, which TV programs to watch etc.
On the other hand habits can make life boring—-never changing daily routines can result in sleep-walking through life. Habits often block new experiences that could add spice and fresh air to our activities.
The other day, we were getting ready to go out to dinner with several friends. Before we left their home, I asked if they might like to try a new ethnic restaurant that recently opened nearby.

Adventuresome Food
One of the couples immediately said, “We wouldn’t like that kind of food”. I asked, “Have you ever tasted any of their entrees?” He responded, “No, but I’m sure we wouldn’t like anything they offer on the menu”.
How sad—-for someone to deny himself what might be a delightful new experience! On the other hand, with that attitude, I’d guess that they probably wouldn’t have enjoyed the meals at that restaurant or for that matter anything other than the narrowly restricted range of food and recipes they eat every day.

Bread & Water
On the other hand to be realistic, most of us aren’t very different than my “picky eater” friends when it comes to living our own lives—where we vacation each year, the brand of cars we drive, how we vote, the clothing styles we select, the books we read….and in fact almost every aspect of our daily routines are governed by long-standing habits. In many ways that’s a good and safe way to live.
However, I’d like to suggest that each of us try a few new experiences to add some zest and spice to our habitual routines. Take your vacation in a new location, go to a restaurant that you’ve been avoiding (without very good reason to do so), read a book on a totally different subject than usual, take a Pathways Institute course that might sound uninteresting to you, volunteer some time to work in one of the service areas at Messiah Village
GO AHEAD, sample a variety of new experiences—they’re all over the place—-and can bring fun and psychological “fresh air” into life’s daily routines.













